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Friday, August 31, 2012

Love is blind? How true is the statement?


Life’s been terribly hectic for me this week. I’ve personally feeling very bad for couple of weeks. Cross-fingered that after today everything will be alright and smooth. =)

Good news to update, my blog is going to have its Anniversary very soon. I’m very happy and amazed of myself that I certainly never thought I would come this far. My blog is the only place that I could feel loved and de-stress after all the errands in reality. Honestly speaking without your loves and comments, I wouldn’t have hang on there and continue blogging till now. I’m really thankful that I have all of your love! <3 nbsp="nbsp">


Talking about love, I’ve encountered certain issues especially people around my circles which I personally wanted to share and hear for opinions from you girls. The above video I watched recently is also one of the reason why I am sharing this.

Love is in everyone’s blood. I believe everyone here falls in love, I’m pretty sure and we can’t live without it. Imagine how you actually fall in love with pretty dress. Pretty shoes. Pretty makeup. Or even pretty boy? Lol.

And when you’re in love, the person you love seems to be the best of the best. You think that you have never seen such a person before and he is the only one. And you want to prove your love. Does that exactly explains when you fall in love with a pretty Jimmy Choo’s shoe and you prove your love by bringing the new pair back home?

The situation happens every single day, no matter what happens whether it is a shoe or a HIM. To fall in love is easy, and when two people look at each other for a lifetime it’s a miracle where marriage take parts. “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. A good marriage is at least 80% good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust” - FullofBourbon

How do you define the right person? For me, it’s all depends. But there’s something to ensure you that there’s always reason why people fall in love with Jimmy Choo’s shoe but not Loubutin. And if you asked me why? I don’t know. But I definitely will not fall in love with Jimmy Choo if he doesn’t have the below:

HONESTLY
Much said about honestly, it is one of the most important values in a relationship. Relationship is like a house with no door or window. While honestly is the window and door that keep your house safe and secure. When you lie, you run the risk of breaking the trust in the relationship. Just like you break your own house door, you lost the sense of security. Much as woman would like to hear that she looks great in that dress, in her heart of hearts, she knows the answer and wants you to spell it out for her, loud and clear. Don’t fool around with her feelings under the pretext of “not wanting to hurt her”. Be honest with her and communicate, she’ll be grateful and happier.


SMART
Women are attracted to men who are smart and can hold an intelligent conversation. Obviously, no girl wants to talk to or be with a guy who is brain-dead.  However, this doesn’t mean that you need to be a rocket scientist or know how to solve the most complex math equations either. When it comes into making important decisions, women expect men to make the right move and working things out logically. Also, try and understand her needs and appreciate her point of view.
 HARDWORKING
Given that there’re two scenarios. The first scenario will be your guy going to work every day working hard for his job and second scenario will be your guy staying at home sleeping all the time and play computer games everyday. Which one will you prefer? No woman wants a man who sits around being content doing nothing. Men that work with drive, goals and burning desire to get somewhere in life is a type of gentlemen that attracts woman.
NOT SELFISH
A man who always put his feelings first, regardless how it impacts others will never commit and share his love to you. So if you’re those kind of guy, please start consider other people more. The world doesn’t revolve around you alone. So start sharing your love and care with the woman you love, make and make her feel like she’s the only one you care about, right there, right then.
CHIVALRY

Chivalry is about respecting woman. It shows men who possess qualities such as courage, honor and loyalty. Truth is, it makes us women feel so special when guys go that extra mile. A little gestures like holding doors, carrying heavy stuff or offering to fix things around her apartment work like magic. Woman will feel much secure and comfortable to rely on a man like this. 
Above all qualities are what I think a men should portrays. No one is perfect and we do make mistakes. As long as we realized our mistakes and repent, things will be better lot in life. If you truly met your Mr. Right, I believe that he should be someone that you're proud of. If you'd viewed the video above, I may assumed that you might agree with me with certain thoughts.

Nevertheless I do love to hear from you. So do share with me what you think! 

Updates:
There's been a very disturbing video of a husband abusing a wife in my Facebook timeline recently. This couple (Amanda Foo & Calven Chik) is having a little drama in Facebook. Do check out the link here from blogger Joshua for the story.



*Pictures above were all taken from Google Image/ Meme & Video source from Youtube*

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